When I first had children, my goal was to raise them in the most natural way possible. I wanted them to have nice quality toys (handmade, wood toys, etc). I didn’t want to get into the whole world of plastic JUNK but over the years we have. We’ve been to numerous yard sales where the people hand over a box of junk and say “here, take it all for free.” Then when were away at the cottage we (yes, WE) purchased Morgaine a large 5 dollar bag of “stuff” as she didn’t have much to do and I was huge and very much pregnant. Well, she didn’t want to get rid of anything and now I’m overcome with Barbies (gasp), building toys and just stuff in general. They have so much stuff that they don’t care about the things they own. They are SPOILED!
For about the last month I’ve been taking the toys they leave out and putting them in a laundry basket in my room. The plan was that eventually they’d get down to a decent amount of toys that they’d be able to take care of and understand that more isn’t always better at which point we could go through the stuff and decide to donate some of it to others with less than we have.
After about a week I’d collected a fair amount
The sad thing is that after a month, I’ve collected over a laundry basket full of stuff and have started to donate things without their knowledge. They still have more than they know what to do with. I could likely toss the whole basketful without a word from them. I am totally appalled that it has come to this. We don’t have any of the nice quality toys that I dreamed of. We’ve succumb to brand names and cheap toys and as a result the children don’t care and actually just want MORE! I’ll continue to purge over the months (I have a friend doing a 500 pound purge this year and I’m kicking myself for not joining as I’m sure that we could have reached that goal) and let you know how it goes.
Have any of you managed to go from way too much back to basics? Let me hear your stories!